Congregation Etz Chaim - P.O. Box 477 – Bentonville, AR 72712
June - Aug 2008
www.etzchaimnwa.org |
Congregation Etz Chaim - P.O. Box 477 – Bentonville, AR 72712
June - Aug 2008
www.etzchaimnwa.org |
June/Aug 2008 Home
Congregation Etz Chaim - P.O. Box 477 – Bentonville, AR 72712
June - Aug 2008
www.etzchaimnwa.org |
NOTE FROM THE PRESIDENT
Shalom Friends,
It’s hard to believe it’s already June! My two-year term as President is now up. It’s been a pleasure holding this post. It’s been very fulfilling seeing all the progress we have made in our very short almost 4-year history. From our Shabbat and Holiday religious services, education, social and community outreach, we’ve been able to provide a wide range of programs. In addition to serving as the only synagogue in Benton County, we also operate in a similar capacity of a Jewish Community Center (JCC). Often times I think of Etz Chaim as the JCC without a pool. As our sign above the front door reads, “Building a Jewish Community in Northwest Arkansas” we strive to do just that in so many ways. I look forward to continuing to be an active member at Etz Chaim.
I want to thank several people for their efforts throughout the year. The Etz Chaim Board is a hardworking group who rarely receives many thanks and are humble in their roles. In addition to monthly meetings, members do other “glamorous jobs” - taking out the trash weekly, fixing broken plumbing, ensuring that chairs are in place for High Holidays, and the list goes on! Serving on this year’s board were: David Hoodis, Past President, Tom Douglass, V.P., Carolyne Wendel, Secretary, Ed Gelman, Treasurer, Marcy Winchester, Religious School Liaison, Stan Kessler, Membership, Evie Adler, Paul Stuckey and Ida Fineberg.
This newsletter covers all of our summer activities currently planned. Thank you Sara Bergman for training our new Editor Ali DeJohn for this issue. Welcome and thanks to Ali! Check the Etz Chaim website periodically for additions and/or corrections. Wishing each of you a wonderful summer!
L'hitraot and Shalom,
Betsy
EVENT CALENDAR
Friday, June 13 at 6:30 p.m.: Family Friendly Shabbat Service led by Rabbi Jack and Debbye followed by a potluck dinner. Etz Chaim will provide challah, beverages, dessert and paper goods. Please bring the following (dairy, parve, no meat or chicken) based on your last name:
A-M: Main Dishes, N–Z: Sides and Salads
Saturday, June 14 at 10:00 am: Shabbat Morning service followed by a Kiddush.
Sunday June 15 at 10:00 a.m.: Etz Chaim Annual Meeting, “Bagel and Business” Recap the year and hear about next year. Vote in new Board Members and thank outgoing members. Your voice is important!
4th of July: The Etz Chaim Parking lot provides the perfect place to watch the fireworks at Memorial Park. We invite you to congregate with a picnic dinner. Due to safety concerns and insurance liability, the use of fireworks, bonfires, etc. are strictly prohibited.
Monday, August 4: The Israel Scout Friendship Caravan will be visiting NWA. Show time at 6:30 p.m. at the Northwest Arkansas Community College (NWAAC) in Bentonville. Mark Levine is the Event Chairman so please contact him at (479) 636-3633 to help with this fun annual event. See page 5 for more details.
LOOKING AHEAD!
High Holy Days 5770/2008
Sept 29th (Monday Erev Rosh Hashanah)
Sept 30th (Tuesday Rosh Hashanah Day 1)
Oct 8th (Wednesday Kol Nidre)
Oct 9th (Thursday Yom Kippur)
FROM THE RABBI’S DESK…
Summer. Just the sound of this season signals a certain slowness. In the warm and then warmer months that await each of us, the tendency is to take a relaxed and deliberate attitude toward just about everything we normally do. For many, kids are in camp, people in the work place are gone due to scheduled time off, people travel more, and generally, we are often in “get by” mode. But what does our tradition teach us about how to approach this time of year? Since we are in the middle of its’ cycle, let’s take a close look at the Omer.
The Omer is the directive found in Leviticus, to count the forty-nine days between the second day of Passover until the fiftieth day which is the holiday of Shevouth, when we celebrate receiving the Law on Mt. Sinai. The initiation of the counting begins with the waiving of an Omer’s worth (an ancient Egyptian weight measure) of the first harvest, which was typically barley and concludes with the bringing of a Mincha Chadash, a new grain which was wheat. From a historical and first blush perspective, it appears that this ancient Hebraic ritual was merely the codification of a Near Eastern agricultural custom. And while that may be true, at least in part, I urge us to consider the timely, beautiful, and meaningful lesson urged by our sages as applicable throughout all generations. The message, the Talmudists maintained was simple and powerful.
The Omer began with barley, a grain that was used almost exclusively for feeding livestock. In other words, when we begin a sincere, self-evaluation process, we realize that in essence we are not far off at all from acting in a way that reflects our most fundamental animal instincts. We work, we sleep, and we eat. All of us succumb to various physical urges. We should consider the intervening days that lead us to the occasion of receiving the Ten Commandments as opportunities to increase our spirituality like rungs on a ladder. We ought to ascend to a higher level of being, such that we can be in a better position to embrace the teachings of our most sacred texts. That is why the Omer terminates with wheat for that is the grain of bread - the foodstuff of people. The goal then is to elevate ourselves from “animal” to “human” for as we do, we reach the ideal of a person described in Genesis as “created in the image of G-d.” The aim is to increase our compassion, love of justice, concern for each other, and affirmatively protect all that grows and is alive in our environment. Each day, literally, is an opportunity to better ourselves incrementally. The passage and marking of time thus becomes a sacred act.
Together, let us embark on this path. When summer ends, the High Holidays will loom near. It makes such good sense then, to spiritually prepare over the next several months. The Omer teaches us that at this juncture in the calendar, the principles of our faith take no vacation but rather we should sanctify our use of time.
Oo-mach-a-lif et ha-z’ma-nim. And the seasons are arranged with purpose.
L’shalom,
Rabbi Jack
OF BLESSED MEMORY…
Our sincere condolences to:
Ellen and Stan Kessler on the loss of Ellen’s Sister, Sandra Halland.
Evie and Lou Adler on the loss of Evie’s Father, Samuel Meyerson.
Debra and Andy Ruben on the loss of Andy’s Grandmother, Annette Ruben
Let them rest peacefully under the wings of the Shechina
DONATIONS
Many thanks to the following families for their generous donations received in March, April and May:
Prayer Book Donations in March, April and May
* In celebration of David Hoodis’ Birthday
* In celebration of the marriage of Josh Gelman to Lisa Burgess
* In celebration of the marriage of Brianna Solomon to Jason Adams
* In Memory of Annette Ruben
-By the Rosen Family
* In celebration of Tom Douglass receiving the Tikkun Olam Award by Marilyn and Bernie Birns
Religious School Fund
* In Celebration of David Hoodis’ Birthday by the Stacy & Scott Doctor Family Fund of the Houston Jewish Community Foundation
* In celebration of Arthur Brown running his 50th Marathon (NOT a Typo!)
* In honor of Betsy Rosen’s Board Service to Etz Chaim by the Hoodis Family
* In honor of Carol Stuckey
-By the Ruben Family
Building Fund
* In remembrance of Sandra Halland, Ellen Kessler’s Sister
* In remembrance of Samuel Meyerson, Evie Adler’s Father
-By the Rosen Family
Memorial Fund
* In loving memory of Sandra Hallond by Ellen and Stan Kessler
* In loving memory of Annette Ruben by the Ruben Family
Please consider Etz Chaim in your charitable giving. Donations are tax deductible and can be made to thank or honor a friend or relative, remember loved ones and friends, celebrate a special occasion, support Etz Chaim’s mission and commitment to growing a thriving Jewish Community in NWA or to leave a legacy. Donations in any amount are greatly appreciated and can be made to the following funds:
v Building Fund Simcha Fund
v Siddur/Torah Fund Memorial Fund
v Religious School Fund Arts Alive
v Adult Education Fund Scholarship Fund
v Rabbi Discretionary Fund
Please send your donations to:
Congregation Etz Chaim P.O. Box 477
Bentonville, AR 72712
L’DOR V’DOR RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS
May was fun filled with the celebration of Israel's 60th Anniversary. Students and parents enjoyed sharing in songs, dancing and stories with Rabbi Jack and Debbye.
I want to thank our teachers and students for a great school year! Everyone worked hard and had a good time. I also want to thank our parents. Often this group is overlooked, however it is important to thank our parents for their dedication and support of Etz Chaim and the religious school. Without our parents commitment we would have no kids to teach.
Enjoy the summer!
Warm Regards,
Wynnie Hoodis
WELCOME TO OUR NEW MEMBERS!
Cindy and Jonathan Shively and their children Noah, age 3 and Ali age 18 months. The Shively’s recently relocated from Memphis to Bentonville.
Please contact our Membership Chairs, Ellen and Stan Kessler at 273-1105 if you know of Jewish friends, neighbors or colleagues who may be interested in membership. It's our goal to warmly welcome and involve all Jews in our area.
MAZEL TOV!
* Mazel Tov to Marcy and Ed Gelman on the marriage of their son Josh to Lisa Burgess on June 8 in Virginia.
* Mazel Tov to Rachel Stucky on her graduation from Bentonville High School. Rachel will be heading to Utica, Miss this summer as a counselor at Jacob's Camp. In the fall she will attend U of A. We thank Rachel for her dedication and involvement at Etz Chaim, including serving as a Religious
School Teacher and an active member in our Sisterhood. We know that she will continue to be involved!
* Mazel Tov to Ida and Steve Fineberg on their son Adam Douglas’s graduation from the U of A.
* Mazel Tov to our Michelle Bruhenn and Ryan Malachek on their upcoming summer wedding.
* Mazel Tov to Cindy and George Flynn on their daughter Brianna’s marriage to Jason Adams in May in California.
TREASURER’S TWO CENTS
WELCOME TO OUR NEW MEMBERS!
Cindy and Jonathan Shively and their children Noah, age 3 and Ali age 18 months. The Shively’s recently relocated from Memphis to Bentonville.
Please contact our Membership Chairs, Ellen and Stan Kessler at 273-1105 if you know of Jewish friends, neighbors or colleagues who may be interested in membership. It's our goal to warmly welcome and involve all Jews in our area.
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Congregation Etz Chaim enters our new fiscal year on July 1st. I hope that you can attend the annual meeting on Sunday, June 15, when we will present an overview of the financial health of our congregation. We are pleased to report that there will not be an increase in dues for the 2008-2009 year. We are appreciative of the strong support and generosity shown by our members and friends of Etz Chaim. It is only with your continued financial support that we can provide the wide range of programming to help our Jewish community grow. Annual Gift/Dues Forms will be distributed in mid-June. We ask that all forms be completed and sent in by August 31. Dues paid in full by August 31 will be eligible for a 10% discount. As always, no one will be denied membership based solely on their financial situation. Please feel comfortable to contact me confidentially if you need to make any special arrangements.
L’Shalom,
Ed Gelman
271-8248
NEWSWORTHY…
OUR NEW PRAYER BOOKS HAVE ARRIVED!
We are enjoying praying from the new Mishkan T’Filah prayer books. Our thanks and gratitude to the Schusterman Family Foundation for their generosity as our major book contributors. There are still several opportunities to donate prayer books. For $36 each, prayer books can be donated to: thank or honor a loved one, commemorate a Yhortzeitz, celebrate a birthday or anniversary and the list goes on. A book plate will be inscribed with your message and our donation is tax deductible.
Please send this information, along with your check ($36 per book) to:
Etz Chaim P.O. 477 Bentonville, AR 72712
* Donated by:
* Inscription on Book Plate:
* Please send acknowledgement to:
THE WOMEN’S SEDER
The ladies of Etz Chaim had a lovely time during the Women's Seder on April 24. This event is becoming quite the tradition for the ladies of Etz Chaim and one that I hope will continue to grow and flourish. We had tremendous food and fun, as well as a lovely service led by Leigh Mercado. I would like to personally thank Betsy Rosen for being the leader and coordinator of this event and helping get everything ready at my home. Thank you to all of the ladies who brought their special and YUMMY dishes. Everything was delicious!!!! I can't wait until next year. Thanks again to all!!
Ida Fineberg
A SPECIAL ESSAY RECEIVED FROM GRACE PENNINGTON, ONE OF THE JOHN BROWN UNIVERSITY STUDENTS WHO ATTENDED SERVICES IN APRIL
This past weekend I accompanied about a dozen fellow John Brown University students to join the Congregation Etz Chaim for its Friday evening synagogue in Bentonville.
As we entered the building, that looked much like a small church with pews and a stage, we were handed a Shabbat book as the men in the group donned a bright purple yamika. We were welcomed by the witty and welcoming jokes of Rabbi Zanerhaft as people began to trickle in the building.
The Rabbi had invited one of Ed Klotz’s Intercultural Family Seminar class to visit the synagogue after he spoke at their class a few weeks ago. I was impressed by the professor and students’ similar desire to experience the practices of another religion head on and learn from it.
I came away from the service with a plethora of new thoughts. Here are a few of them.
I learned that the Jewish religion is very much steeped in history and connecting with ancestors. I felt joined with the people of the past as we read prayers that they would have proclaimed hundreds of years ago.
We spoke Hebrew in a certain sing-song manner that once resounded from the mouths of Jews perhaps in the Bible times. Yet there was life in every word and joy in every verse that we recited. It was as if the congregation knew the words of the prayers by heart, but they were anything but desensitized to their continual meaning and power. Many of them had these verses and melodies memorized, a feat that put my failed attempts to memorize more than a verse of scripture to shame.
I began to see the beauty of the Hebrew language through their prayers and recitations. I was tempted to take one of their Shabbat books that we read home with me. As we read it together, the beautiful flow and deep meaning of the poetic words revealed God in a new way to me. Even as we struggled to sing the Hebrew melodies, while not having a clue what it meant, the joy that shone on people’s faces was enough to transmit the sacred feeling of the prayers.
I felt as if I were in a different country, in a different time, yet I felt welcome and at home there. I agreed with the words that they spoke, and I felt encouraged to join in. The word “Jewish” became a secondary thought, a word with no different meaning than “Christian” to me.
I witnessed nothing that I disagreed with. In fact, I would love to see some of their traditions and songs infiltrated into an evangelical church service. I began to see that the walls that have been drawn around our two religions are unnecessary because they are a people that love God as we do and have a great deal to share.
As I contemplated the service a day after we went, I happened to flip my Bible to Galatians 3:28. I was caught by the verse’s words that said, “In Christ’s family there can be no division into Jew and non-Jew, slave and free, male and female. Among us you are all equal.”
Finally, I was refreshed by the attitude of these people. They seemed to look on their history of oppression and seclusion with courage, desiring peace most of all. The ever present “shalom” saturated the tone of the service. I was impressed by how quick they were to forgive. They had an amazing hope for peace, and they even convinced me that peace is something that we can bring into our world.
Most of all, the Jewish service taught me to relish and honor the past, celebrate the change of the present and move forward as a world community, embracing similarities rather than highlighting differences.
THIRD ANNUAL ISRAELI SUMMER SCOUT CELEBRATION & FOOD DRIVE TO BENEFIT MAZON, ”A JEWISH RESPONSE TO HUNGER”
BENTONVILLE, AR – For the THIRD consecutive summer, Arkansas Jewish Federation is sponsoring the Tzofim for Congregation Etz Chaim and the entire NW Arkansas community. Last year these Scouts performed 2 shows in Bentonville. One Show the Scouts performed to approximately 300 Boys & Girls Club members & staff dancing, singing and touching the lives of the entire community.
The Tzofim Friendship Caravan is part of the delegation sent to North America to represent the State of Israel every summer. Each Caravan is comprised of ten highly motivated and musically talented Tzofim, ages 16 and 17, and two adult leaders. The Caravans perform at camps, public gatherings, U.S. Naval bases, schools, community centers, hospitals and nursing homes. These Friendship Caravans have a delightful ability to introduce Israeli culture and folklore in performances tailored to appeal to audiences of all ages, races and religions. The performance includes songs in Hebrew, English and Yiddish exposing audiences to the vast cultural diversity in Israel.
Tzofim Friendship Caravans will crisscross the United States bringing Israeli culture and goodwill through their unique blend of smiles, songs and dances in Hebrew, Yiddish and English. Between songs, the Tzofim share their personal stories and dreams with the audiences.
Congregation Etz Chaim families will be providing hospitality, for the teenage Tzofim for the duration of their visit. This hosting relationship goes beyond simply providing food and a bed—the host families become true loving surrogate families during the Scouts stay.
This personal contact, combined with the opportunity for the Scouts to teach one-on-one about Israel, is invaluable, and the relationships forged can last a lifetime. Congregation Etz Chaim understands the depth of the bonds created by bringing someone into your home and making them part of the family. As a host parent from Rogers, AR recently said, “The Scouts enriched our lives. These 12 individuals will forever be remembered by us all. They were incredible.” Additionally, hosting a Scout from the Caravan is often the impetus for a first Israel trip for many families – there’s nothing like the hospitality the Tzofim and their families show their host families in return! What better vehicle can there be to bridge the cultural and geographic divide between Israel and the United States?
Congregation Etz Chaim recognizes the hardship that so many Arkansans face and we’re working to do what we can to help our neighbors in need,” Please bring a non-perishable food items to one of the shows so that you can help feed our hungry neighbors.
MAZON brings a nearly 20-year history of effective, strategic grant making to the fight to prevent and alleviate hunger in the US and abroad. They award grants totaling over $3 million to more than 300 organizations each year. Grants are awarded principally in the United States, though we also support vital hunger-relief efforts in Israel and impoverished countries around the world.
This year there will be one show open to the entire community.
Etz Chaim members please contact me if you are interested in hosting a Scout.
Northwest Arkansas Community College
1 College Drive
Bentonville, AR 72712
Monday, August 4th
Performance begins @ 6:30 PM
More details to follow